Bivouac Nov. 2d 1863.
My Darling One,

I would love dearly to run down to Lynchburg, to take a peep at you & our little ones and give you a rousing kiss for your nice letter of the 31st Oct.  I can not however reconcile it to my motives of duty to ask such an indulgence at such a time.  Whenever you feel able to come I can find a nice comfortable place for you to stay while visiting me.  I will make inquiries about different places in Orange for you to stay but am inclined to think you will have to be settled in a little home or go to Alick’s the latter would involve some troubles with Jimmie and the other boys.  I have the money with which to purchase the Madison place but I have not yet effected a purchase.  I would prefer a place back about Scottsville if one could be found to suit but we cant tell without seeing – I can not make any arrangement without seeing you.

You have never told me whether you yielded to my wishes concerning the name of our darling.  I wrote that it was my heart’s desire to call her “Virginia Pelham,” but have heard nothing from you on the Subject.

I am so glad to hear you are doing well, but Mary’s sickness must be a great inconvenience to you.  You will never appeal in vain to Uncle Chiswell or Brother Alick.  We have a Cavalry Review on Wednesday or thursday.  I will write at once for the Jacket & the 7 ½ yds of red flannel.  I have also sent some more cloth to Mrs Thos R. Price.  I hear Major Von Borcke is quite ill – poor fellow.  I would like dearly to see him.  Dr Fontaine wll probably go down on a few days leave soon.  I think it very probably Cousin Lizzie is in an interesting situation.  I received a note from Cousin Nannie the other day congratulating me on the arrival of our little gem.  I hope she will be like our Little Flora.  Jno’s Brigade is quite close to me.  I do wish he was with it.  There seems to be quite a revulsion in favor of my command as well as myself everywhere.  I have traced much of the vilification to Bob Swan, who boasted to a friend of mine that he had been moving heaven and earth to injure me, & would leave no stone unturned to hurt me.  You know he is a low life puppy, & mad because I did not recommend him for promotion which he did not deserve.  “Truth crushed to earth will rise again” – make that your motto.  People’s opinion has changed but I have not, neither has my command.  Col Boteler is a fast friend & very acceptable companion.  Major Venable is now on a leave of 15 days to see his sister married.  I send you $200. which I hope will answer your purposes for awhile.  Send me 10 lbs of coffee as soon as you can by safe hands.  I am entirely out.  Let me know how much I owe Daughtery & I will pay it.  Aunt Maria & Uncle William are very anxious for you to visit them & will send their carriage any time.  Consult your own inclinations.  My little Lily of the Valley is ready for you – be sure to bring your habit.  I went into church yesterday & saw Mrs Hill & Mrs Saunders – they fared very well while the Yankees were here & sent love & congratulations to you.  They are faithful friends & say you must come to see them.  Chiswell has not yet been comissioned but his efficiency has been so much increased by being with Gen Gordon that I will let him stay.  He is brigade inspector & will probably be comissioned as Captain before long.  Give my love to the family, & get along on the best terms you can with those about you.  I want to get Mary’s brother if possible.  I am getting along very well – in fine health & spirits -- & only want you hear to make me comparatively happy.  I have been thinking of having our St John’s Boxes shipped to some point in Maryland with the view of getting them on the next advance – what think you of the risk?

I think I could get them to Balto.

Do you fancy the suburbs of Lynchburg for a home or not. – Look around & see if there is not some little Cottage we could buy which would charm you.

Uncle Chiswell can tell you.  Give him much love -- & all other friends –
& believe me – Dearest

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